These are all outside of your control.

This deal, which combines emotional connection, market opportunity, and long-term financial growth, is a How did you find this deal and how did you negotiate it?

As you said you are currently still employed there, so you can't do it right away until you leave employment there.Second, once you've rolled over, you can setup your SDIRA as a regular account (where fund release has to go via your custodian) or setup a LLC checkbook option, where you can write out a check for your choice of investments.Yes you will have full control over the use of funds in your rolled over SDIRA. 

Because honestly, at one point, I considered his offer and was afraid of the possibility that if I didn't accept I'd be taken to court and be responsible for putting my children on the street, and I can see those types of scare tactics and resulting emotions being enough to scare someone into complying with a transaction no matter how laden it is with misrepresentation, non disclosure and fraud it could be.Again, I don't know if I misunderstood the laws and regulations or not, I could be wrong.

As others have said the house hacking idea is great,  I have an investor that will be getting control of a $1m quad for just $75k.  

If you live in Macomb County, you already know about as much as you need to know to pick good real estate locations.When buying a stock, the investor has no control over how well it does and we all pay the same price, so we look for stocks with hot growth prospects. 

Finally, confirm if there are any existing service contracts (for landscaping, pest control, etc.) that may need to be transferred or canceled.

She was having significant anxiety and personal problems and once she lost control of it she could not regain any ground. 

The only overages I will pay are when things pop up outside of anyone's control.

Sure- Idaho has state laws outlawing rent controls.