Florida has a homstead law, where if your married both have to sign to transfer ownership

Document the trail of the money being transferred and used. 

As you know military orders can transfer you anywhere.

There is no real way to transfer the bookings or listing from one individual to another on Airbnb or VRBO.

I was wondering, as investors, what your most important questions would be regarding estate planning and wealth transfers if you were disabled or died?

Buyers typically pays for any fees relating to their mortgage loan, and sellers typically pay the agent's commission and various fees relating to the transfer of property.No more arguing from me. 

This is where you will do your due diligence, process your mortgage, transfer the title, etc. 

Could they either add your name or could you transfer the car lease to your name?

If you plan on being an active investor, owning and managing your own property, depending on the asset size and type, your stress level might just end up being transferred rather than eliminated.

Most loans today have a “Due on Sale” clause written into them where, if the property is transferred from the owner to another party, the lender can “call the loan”, meaning require the balance to be paid in full immediately.