Don't allow the continuous flow of knowledge to overwhelm you.

The water department told them that they were seeing continuous usage—AKA a leak.

I had been using Stessa, which I really loved, but it is buggy and the banking connection to Chase was continually breaking, which I needed to re-connect, but when I did that I had to go through 200+ transactions and re-allocate the expenses. 

If you’d like to continue renting I need to know when you plan to reoccupy the property unless your son would like to apply separately.

I'm also growing a network of potential partners and investors, and will likely turn to them if that ceiling continues proving to be problematic - and will do so for larger properties even if I'm able to break through the ceiling on my own.

I’m about to close my first deal and am eager to network with other investors, agents, wholesalers, lenders, and cool folks as I continue my journey. sup

Any ideas on forming a new LLC with him to build vs continuing to loan him funds and dealing with the bank perhaps not liking this?

In addition, you will not be relying on the legislature to continue to protect safe unpermitted units.  

Although I am outside of my comfort zone and feel like an absolute tool (I'm lost and that's uncomfortable), my faith, drive, and want to achieve my family and life goals continues to motivate me to get outside of my comfort zone and push for continuous improvement.  

I’ll continue to gauge the interest and make a decision.