I’d rather give up the first X years of cash flow to a private money lender (I.e. your dad) for the down payment then get into a fight over thanksgiving dinner about how to run my rental business. 

I have several years of experience leasing units for both private owners and property management companies.

Since I’m not flipping the property I decided against alternative financing options like a private investor/hard money loan, and I wanted to pull the trigger due to the location and an all cash buyer that was also looking at it while I was there and also interested in buying the property.

I pay back the private money monthly calculated as a simple loan. 

The one time he listened to me was he bought private health insurance for several years before Medicare kicked in, and though he was never hospitalized before he turned 60, was hospitalized twice, for weeks at a time between ages of 60 to 65 when he had BlueCross.

:what is commonly done is you request a copy of the offer with private info redacted.. just price and terms.. 

ADA covers public spaces, not a private residence.

Your best bet on a fix and flip is to use a private money lender or a hard money lender. 

If I look to get a loan from private lender how can I screen him to check if he is doing it legally❓And how to secure myself against loosing any upfront fees if this become a scam❓ By putting it on escrow❓Any advise😎✔️❓

So would you have to come up with private money in order to refinance the house if you were to move into another house?