I keep a lovely mental portfolio of missed opportunities that I have spotted and someone else has made money on. 

Knowing and acknowledging this mental barrier helped.  

We are definitely more open to the idea of financing now that we’ve exhausted so much cash.

I can recognize in myself that their are some nerves and apprehension coming into play, and I guess I figure the best way to get over the mental/emotional hurdles is to educate and prepare.

I am not saying hand-outs or reverse discrimination, dependence causes mental and financial slavery.

That's where I think the issue lies mentally is that not a lot of people have heard or personally used IBC but the ones who do are like addicts lol.

It can be shot on your phone and will help people get a mental image of how the property is laid out. 

$450k for mental distress?

I want to give them the clear communication and also time to adjust or mentally prepare.

What clearly has changed since 2002 is that we have become a one party state and rolled out the welcome mat for half of the nation's homeless and even larger shares of other states' drug addicts, mentally ill and child molesters.