I'm still learning about what's realistic and possible, so I don't have this number yet- minimize taxes- protect liability exposure- if SDIRA is the right answer, the fees for custodians looked high - but moving the money will means saving my capital against market loss in my current Roth at the next downturn, so maybe the fees pay for the added security and additional benefits of REI.It's helpful to write this out.

But “I need you out as soon as possible so the rent escalates beyond that.)I would also ask, before buying.

While I would rent it out as much as possible, husband would want us to block out 2-5 days/month there. 

Best Advise I can give is to contact multiple Independent Agents that write in NH to search as many companies as possible. 

Every title defect is unique and the cure if possible is fact specific. 

@Larry Cersosimo,It is not possible to use your 401k as collateral for the loan, IRS specifically prohibits this. 

All advice is much appreciated. helping me make my decision. mostly thinking about 5-6 until apts building somewhere for 12% cap rate or possibly higher. 

It may be possible for you and your dad to both 1031 your respective interests. 

Here are some of the types of “wanna be” investors who never seem to be able to “pull the trigger:”The Organizer – This individual can’t seem to ever get fully organized - and until they do they can’t possibly make a purchase transaction.

I would use an experienced DSCR broker who can provide you with all the possible options.