If we're talking about a land allocation or a donated amount then it's important to clarify which one and make it very very clear it is an update to the information.

Of course there's a lot of people in this market, and more everyday, so it's important to know people. 

But more importantly, I need to know what numbers make sense so I don't waste their time as well.

Networking is extremely important!

Trulia is my preferred option for looking at market demographics (age, etc), crime (important!)

It is important to share what you are passionate about.

Ask questions about dealing with landlords, leases, tenant rights and other important issues."

@Cara Lonsdale Right now -- due to complacency -- the only important to-do is buy time.What other obvious problems would BK create?

I can find out whats important to them and what they need or want... but with a realtor involved there are a lot of unknowns and lost in communication issues.Ok... so my questions are: How do I propose this to a realtor and have it actually work? 

It is important to understand that only your belongings without a beneficiary go into a trust (most of the time).