I get the full match on my 401k and contribute to a Roth IRA, although not the maximum amount yet.I am considering using the money to start investing in real estate. 

I get the full match on my 401k and contribute to a Roth IRA, although not the maximum amount yet.My question is what are some suggestions as to how I should invest/continue investing the money?

We also have an additional $85,000 in Roth IRA contributions we can use. 

I am guessing I would also need a CPA who knows about the strategies to be able to do my taxes as well, am I correct, as my current one is not familiar with using self directed IRA's to purchase investment property and reap the benefits.

I also like using trusts and qualified plans such as IRAs/401Ks to provide ananymity and to seperate liability for properties.  

If you can't offer me more than the stock market or my ira, then I wouldn't invest.

She can only contribute to the IRA what they are paid from the company.

I pulled the trigger by cashing out my IRA.

Can I lend both my IRA money and non-IRA money on the same loan without violating any of the IRA rules? 

I would say my net worth is about 55k and about 35k of that is liquid the rest tied up in ROTH IRA's/retirement accounts.