You may make less on each project but will more than make up for it by being able to do more projects with less stress.

Having someone for that is a life saver and eases stress

Oy vey.

Lenders are under huge stress, many closing doors right now.

That's why I stress the importance of building a relationship first.

I understand that its easier to just sell it - I have had the same thoughts ( Sell for 20k profit without having to do anything to it) But in the long run, 20k vs an 80-100k profit is a huge difference and definitely worth the extra stress in my opinion. 

Just give vey renter $10,000 to spend how they want, that’s just as “fair”. 

I currently have one but he sucks so bad with schedule and timing it is very stressful sometimes. 

The last few weeks before closing were very stressful.

It's less stressful knowing you have buyers waiting for the deals you are looking for.If you happen to find a deal that none of your buyers want then you could always joint ventuire with another wholesalerso your first 2 activities should be 1. build a list of buyers2, build a list of disposition wholesalers