I heard that phrase a while back (I think it was a BP podcast) and it stuck with me.This has been a long time coming, but my wife & I finally worked ourselves to a position to make that decision. 

My wife has an acquaintance in InvestHer that does flips in beach areas of Orange County that often adds ADUs.  

He's paying $22k per year for mortgage alone, beside the mortgage he and his wife need 30k a year to live on.

@Jay Hinrichsthank you, I will take your suggestion and run it through with the wife and my son.

My wife talked to a plumber we had used on a couple of jobs in the past that was reasonable.

The contract I could find says the following:```...together with the right of ingress and egress at all times for the purpose of mining, drilling and exploring said land for oil, gas and other minerals, and removing the same therefrom.And said above described land being now under an oil and gas lease originally executed in favor of [Oil Company], Chicago and now held by [Oil Company] it is understood and agreed that this sale is made subject to said lease, but covers and includes of all the oil royalty and gas rental or royalty due and to be paid under the terms of said lease.It is agreed and understood that of the money rentals which may be paid to extend the term within which a well may be begun under the term of said lease is to be paid to the said [purchaser], and in the event that the said above described lease for any reason becomes cancelled or forfeited, then and in that event, the lease interest and all future rental on said land, for oil, gas and mineral privileges shall be owned jointly by [owner] and wife and [purchaser] each owning & interest in all oil, gas and other mineral in and upon said land, together with interest in all future rente.This sale is made for and in consideration of the sum of Ten Dollars, cash in hand paid, the receipt of which is hereby acknowledged.To have and to hold the above described property, together with all and singular the rights and appurtenances thereto in anywise belonging unto the said [owner] heirs and assigns forever, and we do hereby bind ourselves, heirs, executors and administrator to warrant and forever defend all and singular the said property unto the said [purchaser] heir and assignee against every person whomsoever lawfully claiming or to claim the same or any part thereof

My wife and I will be debt free in roughly 6/2025.

My wife and I our first time buyers.

My wife drives across town to get her hair done. 

My wife and I had a lot of money stolen from us by a so-called property manager in Cleveland (who was later brought to court by the attorney general due to other crimes he committed) and we ended up being able to place the property with Re/Max Haven Realty.