We broke it off prior to the wedding and I chose not to pursue getting the $ back. 

Send wedding style letters that say confidential to the attorneys- this gets it to their desk not their secretary.

We do not have a lot of money and definitely are pinching pennies all the time.We have a wedding coming up and closing on a house at the same time, as well as dealing with our current house’s issues.Some things may seem insurmountable but they are not, it is uncomfortable and you may go to bed worrying but most of the time I am excited.I am excited about expanding my future and the future of those around me.I feel like I have more control over where my life is heading and the financial stability for the future.I always felt uneasy throwing money in a distant account waiting until the twilight years of my life to get at it.

They have gone as far as requiring a written letter from my Mom stating that a $1000 wedding gift was not a loan.

(Thus, the lower interest rate will allow you to pay it down quicker overall).Congrats on your wedding, but now it's time to heed (your known?) 

So, I'am off to a wedding in Chicago now while the house is finishing up by the 8th.

Hello, I recently got engaged and am thinking of how to make some money to pay for the wedding.  

If I have it right, there is a Meetup this coming Wed. 5-27-15, in Lake Forest, CA.                                                    

To meet some of those investors, besides posting here, start attending NHREIA which was last Wednesday, and NH Real Estate Investors Mastermind, which is in Nashua and is this Wed. 

Are you still holding meeting on the third Weds. of each months at 1826 E Sprague Ave?