Given the cash flow loss on the 7% property, I think I need to remove the emotion and make the right business decision for my portfolio holistically.

years, I would definitely sell it pretty soon, because if/when the market weakens it will probably start losing value.

Self management works if you are local and can separate emotion from business.

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There is also the emotional aspect that makes us want to avoid certain things, like townies walking through just because they are nosey.

All normal emotions for going through the tedious construction process. 

And emotional. 

Brandon Turner here on BP has written a few good books to help.Lessons Learned:  Never let your emotions get in the way. 

Is anybody able to find renters without pets and is there a way to handle the emotional support animal situation.

And the truth is, if the investment property was completely passive and you had zero connection with it, such as an arbitrary stock in a mutual fund, then I would agree not to get emotionally attached to any one investment.