Given your situation (demanding job, young family, special needs child), I would suggest doing the SFH route for your first investment, especially if it's OOS.

In Texas, if transactions are reasonably distinguished among child cells, one does not need separate bank accounts per a few attorneys' advice.

How old is your oldest child that is into golf? 

Be a man, not a child.

Fast forward to now, and they say the mold and condensation is back and it’s bad for their child’s health.

My wife of 20 yrs is currently pregnant with our first child and I want to get us out of debt and build our savings.

It sounds like you're still undecided on an asset class.

I was a foster child who put myself through college on my own, and I have relied on some good friends for a place to stay as I grew up, which has motivated me to create a better life for myself.I have done a lot of research on real estate, and from my perspective, it seems as if wholesaling, which I feel my sales skills may help with, would be a good place to start to make some extra money to speed up the investing process.

Meyers to discuss this nationwide and Lehigh was the poster child for massive subdivisions allowed to be platted without enough infrastructure to allow a full build out.. 

A person living independently or a group of persons living as a single household unit using housekeeping facilities in common, but not to include more than three persons who are unrelated by blood, marriage, adoption, or foster-child status, or are not Life Partners.Splitting the building into two 4 bedroom units is not allowed.