Stessa support has so far been unhelpful.

We've ingored "the 70% rule" from day one (over 15 years now).

However, there is no way to do so without risk.The Internal Revenue Services issues three (3) Private Letter Rulings (PLRs) that allowed the taxpayers to do just this.

The community, coaching and support really are second to none, and I always gain valuable insights from the masterminds and every interaction I have with them.  

What are the rules for removing this person, as I understand it he falls under hotel rules, not the landlord tenant act.

Some markets can support that expense and others can't. 

Real estate takes many years to be able to support yourself, and that’s if you do everything right and the cards fall into place.

I don't know if you've played around with the feature request portal (it's under Help and Support in the top right, then Suggest a Feature).

Your taxes are none of the ex wife's business and this would seem to address your concerns.I would also put her on notice that future requests for financial discovery will be two-way and if a discrepancy is seen in the other direction you will seek support from her.

It seems like the tenant is being respectful, following the rules, and is not being a problem so I think that is what you would tell any other tenants who ask, as long as you have seen the card.