@Martin StreichPlease go to your profile page https://www.biggerpockets.com/users/msresolutions and click on your photo to update it.

And i found launch control but the minimum is $500 a month, but they use cross-referencing data across sources to find the most accurate contact information by using a person's name and address to find their phone number, real address and email by accessing public databases, phone number directories, credit reports, utility bils, public tax records, and social media profiles. this is waaay expensive for me as a beginner. what do you suggest or if anyone has any suggestion I'd greatly appreciate it.??

The profile of seller who uses a wholesaler is commonly anti-broker.

I guess that kind of vitriol is to be expected coming from someone who doesn't even have his own picture in his profile. 

The truth is, another investor is always just one phone call or email away from taking what could’ve been your deal.So, as you navigate the season of celebration, keep this in mind:- Be ready to act, even when it’s inconvenient.- Every hour counts, especially with motivated sellers.- Opportunities don’t wait—neither should you.The holidays are about giving, but they’re also about recognizing opportunities and making the most of them.

Not WAIT for the most popular platform in the industry to dump them all at the SAME TIME in the SAME PLACE AFTER they have been posted somewhere else first.Read my profile for further insight and  if you want the study I done I can post it here. 

So, I decided to start a new profile and dive in!

Selling your stocks also has tax implications and margin is only 50% as you mentioned, that too depending on your stock profile.

@Alex Messner, your decision, amongst other factors, mainly depends on you and your wife's financial profile. 

It depends on the deal and the risk profile.