As I said I am really struggling with this issue and need to come to some resolution in the coming days.

I like to state my resolutions as if I am looking back on a year, not looking forward into it.

In some cases you can dispute or respond to reviews.

While I don't have a resolution to my situation to give you advice on, here are a few things to think about...If you got an offer for $330K last year and you said no, at what value would you say yes?  

Title is rarely going to get involved when a dispute arises. 

Write a Resolution, sign/seal it, an put it in your corporate books/binder.

Most of the time you can prove this by your own testimony; however, in the event of a dispute it helps to have evidence.

The only true way of finding out what will result is to talk and negotiate with all Lenders involved.As for what makes a Short Sale a "better" resolution than a foreclosure, read thru this site.

One big area could be a dispute as to what the deposit was.

I have tried seceral times to email, file disputes, send letters to get these taken off and have had no luck?