Also I need a CPA who specializes in real estate!

Both are opportunities, however I would like to ask to the Pros which one may be better as a first time home buyer/investor, as I do not have anyone in my current network that would be able to advise. 

Both are opportunities, however I would like to ask to the Pros which one may be better as a first time home buyer/investor, as I do not have anyone in my current network that would be able to advise.

The fact that your CPA and financial planner are "against the cash out" tells me there may be more going on here.

If so, then it is what it is and is long done.If by some mechanism you were able to take the funds without that being classified and reported as a distribution (unlikely, but possible), then you have a bigger issue and should consult with your CPA as to how to fix the reporting and pay any necessary taxes and penalties.... 

The weekend we spent seeing properties and network with other real estate professionals versus hanging out with our friends.

Its often posted here on BP as a Network meeting.

I’m new to Real Estate investing and would like to meet and collaborate other investors in my city.

Hi All,I'm a new real estate investor who's been trying to aggressively network with out of state parties (realtors, property managers, lendors, etc) for making a potential purchase.Due to distance, I'm worried out-of-state investors aren't always top of mind or receive pocket listings compared to local buyers or investors.

just a note.....all those facts on orlando are great....but check the average wage of a working person in central floridaour cpa tells us of all his clients in orlando , the average salary is $24,000