Dont be shy and go back to the pan regularly.  

Use a regular bank.Now what I'd recommend you do is find some of the hard money lenders that have the right program for what you seem to be looking for.

--I want to purchase, rehab, cash her out and hold the 3-unit but I need assistance with the process because I don't have much time to monitor progress.

It's on a small lake and most regular manufactured homes in the area similar style are renting for about $850 with no lake. 

I know many vets who like me drive truck, and pass random drug tests on a regular basis.

It get the most out of it, set up key word alerts and post regularly.

You should look at some inflation calculators to see what the purchasing power of $2.560 will be in 10-20-30-40 years.I would rather have all my properties in one good area and monitor that economy instead of 4 so-so areas.I own one SFR in Vegas that I bought in 1994. 

@Timothy Daniels Timothy I noticed you said you are already in the vacation rental game; we currently own 7 standard buy and hold properties and we are eager to buy a condo in two different VR markets that we travel to regularly . 

When you say, "Sign up with them", does that mean I'm able to get regular, up-to-date feeds from them?  

@Justin Schellenberg I started monitoring this thread because I have my eye on a property similar to the one you mentioned.