Therefore Bill & Jane's vacation house in the Hamptoms or the ABC Company tenant 10,000 SF commercial build out is ahead of your development.Robert- If you do have the correct Architect for your project, then the problem is: they aren't incentivized to change anything.

Biggest mistake I see is going to vacation and then half of the 45 day ID period days are gone or an investor looking for a (deal of the century and not being realistic).

Or would I be wiser to wait until I have a 9-5 post college and just enjoy these years and hope market conditions become more favorable?

Not a goal that'll be soon but would like to gift them a home that they can live in and enjoy.  

If they don’t like it, they can try to negotiate the rent down, or they can vacate.

Enjoy!

Enjoy the process, and may your journey lead you to a rewarding and successful outcome!

I'll be honest with you all, sometimes I dream of selling it all and just having 2-5 paid-off houses, enjoying the extra monthly cashflow and just enjoying life.Maybe one day I'll act on that dream and deleverage the way Dave teaches.

Ppl get testy about $ and things like their home(s) thus enjoy seeing others "squirm." 

Start with BP but there are a few others out there you'll find and enjoy.