I'll be retiring soon from the military and civil service.

With that said, the best, easiest option for you is to take it to a civil engineering company to subdivide the property such that it meets local zoning requirements and to figure out how to protect the wetlands. 

That was until the Persians came, and a man who was often derisively called "the whoremaster of Athens," aided by the contributions of, yes, despised, belittled, and often-abused sex workers, essentially saved the core Greek institutions of western civilization at their inception, in the naval battle of Salamis, circa 480 BC.

In my part of the country an upgrade to a system can get pricy, we're talking about new civil engineering plans, permits, meetings with the town, excavators, and new landscaping, its a process....So I have to ask, are you sure you have a private septic system?

I am a civil engineer looking to move from Westchester, NY to Fort Lauderlade, FL.

See Civil Code section 1941.1 here.

I thought it was a really great topic and for the most part folks were being very civilized and helpful. 

Since you waited 10 days, it’s likely out of the country and there isn’t much you can do, as far as getting the original money back.Maybe someone offers to make you whole but besides that or litigation there’s not much you can do

If HUD finds reasonable cause to believe that discrimination occurred you will be brought into an administrative hearing where HUD attorneys will litigate the case against you, or the Attorney General will file a suit and litigate it against you in Federal Court.

I sit on a board which is actively involved in litigation against a property owner who is running an AirBnB in a community which expressly forbids it.