The journey as an investor has been fruitful, but with all good things comes it’s challenges such as obstacles with tenants, the respective city laws,co-ownership nd etc.

As I go through the appraisal I have already noticed some discrepancies that I will respectfully be updating the lender with.  

I would hate to be just " number" but would like to gain graceful experience and respect. 

But then I have these two really tall sprinkler pipes (about 3 and 5 feet respectively) on the side of the house that don't turn on with either set of valves.

They have to respect you. 

I always tell my tenants to notify me when there is a plumbing or electrical problem and I tell them not to worry about being blamed because as the owner of the property it is my obligation to make sure that everything is functioning as is expected.Treat your tenants with the respect they deserve and the way you like to be treated.

Finally, if you are concerned about an interaction, you could establish up front with whomever you are communicating with, and you will probably earn their respect and attention.

That being said, you should treat your realtor with respect.

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If not, then please explain.I assume by "wants a piece of the action" you mean that neither one of you is bringing much cash to the table and plan to use your respective credits (or possibly just your father's) to secure long-term funding for these 6 properties.