It saves me money on the homeowners as it is a multi unit building. 

Demand payment within 30 days or threaten to send them to collections, take them to court, or whatever you plan to do.If they don't pay, move forward with court, collections, etc.Taking someone to court may get you a judgment, but that doesn't put money in your pocket.

Several local people have posted drive arounds with personal commentaries.

All six (6) lenders the owning spouse has contacted have stated that due to the way the property is titled in the SDIRA (75% SDIRA owned and 25% ownership in spouse personal name), the SDIRA would have to disburse the property totally from the SDIRA and deed the property into only the owning spouses name in order to provide a mortgage loan, HELOC, etc of any kind against the property in order to pay the spouse.

Or sell it and use the money to recast on our sfh.

I would have hoped they let the person turn it on manually instead of making sure the entire email is read to know you can opt-out. 

I do have amazing agents and hard money lenders, but I am opened to discussing other partnerships.

Projections mean very little once they have your money.

Waiting for the event to come and then act, will cause you to lose money as people who decided to go ahead and jump, are selling as they had already made lots of money.The same thing can happen in the housing market.

Any money made will be gone quickly!