I have scoured the Internet for an answer to this.

Within my 1st day I put 2 duplexes under contract, 1ST DAY never even looked on the internet and researched/analyzed. 

In fact, the one that did come out was grateful to see it because as I mentioned we did a full reno and any updated information on the home is not out there to just find on the internet.

Telling me how many you doors is just internet bravado, knowing how much primo land you have you'll be so quiet and have no needs to share.

It's better than what you'll get from most attorneys and what you'll find on the internet.

-How to set a strategic marketing plan for motivated sellers which includes direct mail secrets, internet marketing and bandit sign marketing.

and how do I go about dealing with this.If exactly as you say, your lender is either new/inexperienced or used some version of a form found on the internet rather than have a solid, attorney drafted agreement.

Further,  I am paying for his internet.  

People think they can use the internet to skip this step. 

You might try wholesaling, but even that is not going to be fast - find a wholesaler, go work for him for free for a couple months, soak all the knowledge you can meanwhile and read all the material you can get from internet, BP, Amazon books on the subject.