With a self-directed IRA you are in charge of what you invest in, therefore the due diligence on the investment is something you will be responsible for. 

Accept the pet and charge the monthly feeYou will have to decide for yourself what works best.

We never let them take advantage of us, we still charge late fees.

If both parties are unrepresented, and you just make the connection and want to charge either or both of them some kind of consulting/admin fee, that would conceivably be allowed...if your broker allows it*, and the if fee is paid to your broker.The customer always pays the broker, and the broker always compensates the agent - you can not be paid directly by the customer as a sales associate.

Each month they sell more advertising so the number of leads per share goes down, but the amount they charge me does not go down relatively.

They do charge a small fee for the list but it si cheaper than any other tool we tested Here is the link. https://gobig.titletoolbox.comLet me know how it works for you.

@Anthony Gayden  insightful  post ... affordable housing in the northwest is an Oxymoron.given govmit regulations and systems development charges .. price of land.. there is no such thing as new construction affordable housing..

An amount equal to 2 full month’s rent for all leases with a term of 36 months orlonger.That means if the PM finds a short-term tenant for 3 months, they can still charge FULL month's rent.  

You can also factor upsides like splitting meters, charging tennants for utilities, carports, storage or garages.

If the sponsor has some challenges with credit then lenders who fund them will charge higher interest rates and fees.So in short all of those parameters that you asked about are "typical" but just know that the rate and terms of any multi family loan are dependant on the state of the property and the financial strength and creditworthiness of the sponsor.