Per a lot of articles trying to stick to the landlord friendly states, but I have heard good things on the forums about KC so looking at that as well.Will look for some meetups once I'm done with the above.Some of the resources I've been using to narrow down states in case someone else finds it useful:https://www.neighborhoodscout.com/in/indianapolis/... - Useful to get some high level info about crime rates, schools ... all the basics when selecting an area.

The BP forums are such a great resource.

Here are some recommendations for you:Find and connect with other BP members that are in your area: http://www.biggerpockets.com/meetSet up keyword alerts to be notified of the topics that interest you: http://www.biggerpockets.com/alertsRead Beginner’s Guide: http://www.biggerpockets.com/real-estate-investingCheck out BP Podcasts: http://www.biggerpockets.com/renewsblog/category/podcast

I have in fact read through the entire beginners guide as well as done weeks of research on my own, and I have to say that this guide is very informative.

There's just more resources and patience that's needed to find a good deal.

It is an incredible resource!

What are the best resources to use while learning about commercial real estate investing (specifically large multi-family)?

These forums are a great resource. 

Here are some recommendations for you:Find and connect with other BP members that are in your area: http://www.biggerpockets.com/meetSet up keyword alerts to be notified of the topics that interest you: http://www.biggerpockets.com/alertsRead Beginner’s Guide: http://www.biggerpockets.com/real-estate-investingCheck out BP Podcasts: http://www.biggerpockets.com/renewsblog/category/podcast

Another good resource is Max Maxwell, he has a youtube series which is helpful as well.