I'm an exceptionally fast learner and have at least average coordination, so I love the idea of learning to do as many things as possible myself.If I wanted to be equipped for the widest variety of DIY tasks as inexpensively as possible, what tools should I buy first?

If he's a partner, you're stuck with him and you now have a business that's running sub-optimally -- and you have NO recourse to make it run better.I see no more reason to make your contractor a partner than I see making your real estate agent, your closing attorney, your mortgage broker or the guy who picks up your trash a partner -- you can hire out these tasks just as (more?)

Therefore, I'd like to include the electric, water and internet as a courtesy.  

Also agree for the utilities it should be factored into the rent - same for internet, cable, etc.

For moving stuff or simple tasks, it’s good, but more complicated items, it isn’t great since they don’t have the expertise.

I would mention a dropcam however that would require internet access as well.  

They know that they are easy to get and that you can buy them on the internet, so what’s the point?

Retain the services of a qualified attorney as necessary.I found an interesting document on the internet that may shed some light on your situation.

That was the "old days" before underwriters became internet savvy.

This could help however, it is a much longer task then just getting a realtor on your team.On a side note I have recently seen an improvement in trulia.com with the site updating the newest listing from the mls within a day or two.