Looking forward to conversing with you all.

Too many people think they are forbidden from having a conversation with the appraiser - not true.

We then had a conversation and once I had the thought he may be an agent I told him upfront I had already been working with one.

I don't think I want to have individualized conversations with each tenant about their specific issues, not that I don't care, but I don't think I can provide relief individually, if I do something for Carol in apartment B I can't not offer it to Jim in apartment D. 

@Matt HigginsThanks for getting the conversation started.  

I would have some further conversations with the note holder to try to best uncover how the tenants are doing during this unprecedented time.  

At this time, it is best to start a conversation with your tenants and see what you can work out. 

You wouldn’t pay the penalty on the Roth conversion anyway but being able to spread the tax hit over three years to bolster a more liquid retirement account?

Hi Tyler -I've "lived" with couples twice before, once in a conventional house hack situation (I lived in one unit of the building, and they lived in another), and once as "roommates" (separate bedrooms but common kitchen/living room).Wasn't an issue at all in the former.In the latter (which, if I understand correctly, is the situation that you're considering), I had a conversation with them up front about intimacy and inclusivity in common spaces.

This doesn’t have to be a landlord tenant type conversation.