For Example, my Note Investing notebook has Sub Categories for Consolidated Note Resources, Goals, Note Buying Criteria, Foreclosure Timelines and Costs, State Specific Notes, Systems for The Note Business, Collection Time Tables, Note Conferences, Bankruptcy in Notes.. 

I've been the guy on the other side of the table "looking silly" so learn this lesson from me if you haven't already.

And it's done to intimidate; but I turned the tables, and it's clear he isn't accustomed to that, nor does he like it when it's done to him. 

You can bring cash to the table to facilitate the refi by using savings, loan against 401k, and/or getting another loan against some other asset. 

Zoning, subcontractors, mother nature, P/I during construction and rent up, your loan doesn't get "fixed" until after construction, material inflation, etc, etc, etc.You have taken most of the risk off the table with family financing and family construction. 

Don't let that time table of summer 2025 make you take a deal that is not the right one for you.

Bwahahaha that's classic!

The upstairs loft is underutilized..its just another living room, you need to do something very different there (adult games, poker, pool table, bar etc perhaps?)

So I have posted " many say they want to network" but ok, what do you bring to the table? 

I am VERY certain I have made some (or many) mistakes or left money on the table or overpaid etc... but all of these deals are cash flow positive after all costs + vacancy and maintenance.