I had just asked for a video walk through and the agent listing Said he could walk me through it physically. 

He's fulfilled Actual Possession: he's physically present on the land, treating it as his own.

Lets say I have one paid off property, if I put it into a trust- taxes seem pretty high...So its a no go...1) If I put it into a one member LLC then taxes are paid by the LLC owner on a personal tax return, which is not great either because I would rather not have any properties on my personal tax returns...But is taxation of a real estate held in an LLC generally cheaper than taxation of real estate held in corporations (C or S corp) or other entities?

I'd like to invest in a couple condos in the Charlotte, NC market and for the most part the desired return is there until I incorporate property management costs.

You could borrow a bit of space from the dining room and incorporate it into the kitchen.

I own properties in multiple states but am based in Toledo and can offer my experience, resources and a physical presence.

Does it make sense to create a new LLC under the state of Delaware or would I be better of in just incorporating in one of the states we own in.

Trying to incorporate with a hybrid structure that will provide asset protection, but be less anonymous for various reasons.

When somebody would leave and try to use the deposit I had (Against my lease) I would usually have a check that had been rejected before and had the Tenant pay cash or cashiers check to get caught up and again use the Physical check on file to cash it thus getting the rents and deposits bacK.  

These kinds of tenants are likely to cause physical damage as well.I had a similar issue with a new tenant who immediately fell behind in rent then hosted parties with their friends and damaged the building (our cost was around $500).