Your income definitely shows you could do a new build, but if you are a first-time builder, finding land, construction costs, and managing a new build will be way out of your zone of genius, especially if you both work busy jobs.To get value add, you can look for a multi that has really good space/bones, but needs upgrading so you can live in a really nice place and create a second nice space for rent/family.

Quote from @Patrizia Sanino: Quote from @Jonathan Greene: Wholesaling, done correctly, is a full-time business.

Happy almost Summer BP Community,I'm reaching out to tap into the collective wisdom of the community as I look to expand and accelerate my rental business using the BRRRR strategy.I currently focus on buy-and-hold investments in small multifamily properties (2-4 units).

As everyone else said, get out of the business if you can't close yourself when you can't find a buyer on any deal.

That allows you to submit claims that happened before the business shut down but were not reported to you until after.  

Above 5+ units is possible but more challenging and rates are where you would expect them..50-65%LTV will be common for higher plex units, a common workarounds is if they have a US based family member or business partner with an LLC..Some investors or lenders have specific countries of origin that are restricted or even prohibited, check with your mortgage professional. 

For anonymity, could i use a company like zen business to be my registered agent and thus maintain anonymity? 

It's one of their ineligible business types for use of funds.

That enables people with a busy schedule to benefit from investing in real estate without having to have day to day responsibility of the property.

Also congrats on building your real estate portfolio while keeping others in mind, too much greed in this business sometimes!