So what I'm saying is just loading up your Gatling gun with money and spraying it at the problem may have little effect if the committee is hard-nosed to you personally, alcohol establishments, or just everything in general.

Multifamily Millionaire Book Bundle – BiggerPockets Bookstore I think by reading those you'll get a better sense of where you want to focus on multifamily and from there you can continue your focus on what type of analytics/underwriting makes sense.

Hi there, I need advice and I thought what better of a place to ask than a place dedicated to the type of people I (think) I should be trying to find (to buy our property).

But go back to the realtor where you are at and tell them the type of multi family you would like and walk you through making an offer.  

What ways can I prepare myself for these type of events. 

This is also depending on the type of CRE property your father has.

I have been told that with this type of contract as a buyer I don't get the deed to the house until it is completly paid off.

What types of properties / strategies are you intersted in? 

What do you do with this type of mail? 

Those type of deals have the potential to go South quickly and ugly, then they can be an anchor on you.