Both my girl friend and I were very fixated on purchasing a duplex somewhere in florida and all the duplexs we drove to looked amazing in the photos but the neighbors and environment were another story. 

I have been pondering if the bank follows up on this requirement.

He thinks its more than likely a college aged girl that's home for the summer.

My husband is active duty Air Force and we are currently stationed in Japan, and I am a stay at home mom (both of our girls are currently in school ages 9 & 6).

But real estate allowed my wife to ditch employment, be a stay at home mom, went back to school, since we had income to do it.Currently, my older girl is graduating college, and my younger one is starting.

The last girl child is getting married in May of this year so all the kids will be out of our pockets after that.

I was 25, just graduated from nursing school, had a decent job, was engaged to a girl that wanted lots of kids and to be a stay at home mom, wanted a house, and this and that and a little of that too.

My girls are young right now.

Experts in every field make disastrous mistakes all the time, so theres no reason you can't take action and figure things out as you go no matter what mistakes you make.Love the content, and always enjoy everything you guys and girls put out.Keep up the great work!

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