I use to know where each and every cent is going and know exactly what i have disposable for ventures.

I listed the ways you can use those losses above - Qualify or have a spouse qualify as RE pro - Have passive income (passive losses can always offset)-Create a bigger picture plan for losses as in the year a property is disposed of all the prior disallowed losses become available to deduct (You can potentially sell a property tax free from prior losses banked up)No there is no secret way to get a HUGE benefit without qualifying for it. 

I’ve been blessed & have a line of credit of 250k at my disposal.