That's how it'll work out.For your personal situation, my personal opinion if you and your wife are trying to start up quit getting cute with investing and go buy a really good SFH is a good neighborhood and cherish family formation.

I’m constantly worrying, I was wondering if there is anyone I can talk to about the situation that’s gone through the something similar? 

@Patrick ForelliFirst, this is not a sub-to situation at all.

Hi @Paul Pratt I ran into a similar situation previously and I don't know a specific company but you can start by researching the following.

I have a friend who's been quite successful with it, and my first househack was a co-living situation.  

This introduction sets the stage, explaining the magnitude of the situation and its potential impacts on the market.

@Brandon Beaudoin Certainly there are situations where this infinite banking policy could make sense but it is after many other financial planning possibilities have been exhausted.I think @Jonathan Bock said it best, we don't have to sell it but we CAN if it makes sense in their overall financial life plan.Shoutout to Chat GPT for helping me write any post someone disagrees with 😏😅

I managed to turn this chaotic situation into a nice house.

You could certainly "be in the right" regarding getting screwed over by the builder but this is a situation that is going to be very very risk for a hard money lender - typically stay away from unfinished rehabs/builds due to running out of money.Your best bet I would say is to find a local private money partner (maybe as more of an equity investor) or to try to finish one first and then re-evaluate, instead of trying to borrow for rehab on both

If an institutional lender is happy at 50% LTV to a foreign national and the seller will supply another chunk of the debt (for example, 30% 2nd), you might end up in a fine situation for financing.4.