My husband still works, and he has a consulting business, so for now we are ok, not great but not yet dire, he works 100% remote so only if it makes financial sense moving OOS to fulfill next step to get to financial freedom- it is an option . current picture. 

Perhaps you can equity strip and refi to keep equity exposure to $1M, but these are considerations worth having now if you have the purchasing power you’re suggesting.

It's legal for passive investors to have voting rights and power in the deal. 

Here's some background: Data warehouses need the following: 20-50 megawatts of power, land (3, 9000+ square foot facilities within arms distance of each other), water and fiber optics. 1.

Power is in the community and the ability to network and learn from community members (BP is the perfect example)Gino

Hostaway seems interesting as potentially something with the power of Ownerrez but without the challenging interface and complexity. 

With strategic updates and market insight, this property became a highly desirable investment, showcasing the power of effective collaboration and value-driven improvements.

Some of the features I am looking for (most likely there is not 1 single vendor who has all this built-in, but more of a technology stack that integrates nicely)Would something like propstream, carrot, and kixie be powerful enough to get rolling out the gates and still be efficient in your eyes?

I’ve never met anyone who regretted house hacking—it’s a powerful way to get started.House hacking can help you get better financing terms, live in and manage your property directly, and start building equity right away.

You say you want to attain financial freedom, but remember that is a buzzword.