Most people are not as upset if you are transparent with all of them from the beginning. if you have run all their background etc... you must give the ones you turn down the adverse action letter.

Constantly motivate yourself, and make sure to celebrate all of your small victories..

She was obviously upset, but I told her I may be able to help her by buying the house.How can I wholesale a deal like this? 

If I can quit my W2 job at some point, I wouldn't be upset with that.

They constantly upset the consumer with the promise that they will learn "secrets" to RE investing.  

This amount is actually the payoff amount and not the $90K that the told me. they are pretty upset about me asking them to lower the price.The contract I got from my then mentor is a odder to purchase real property agreement.

If you're making offers on private seller deals, you'll want to be more careful, as private sellers will certainly be more upset about you backing out than a bank will be.So, tread carefully.

I am not upset by that, as I like seeing people making a solid home in an area I am investing.

I am upset and already feel like I've been mislead.

It's also possible that this wholesaler is shopping the contract around for a quick profit, but plans on closing with cash if they have to.You just don't know.I have to admit that I've jumped to the same conclusion myself and got really upset because my offers weren't presented, or at least weren't presented fairly.