I got engaged in a similar fashion.  

Ride a motorcycle with friends while looking at properties is my personal favorite.

I'm also starting my first flip which is in Pa, bought cash for $25,530, and is a 90 minute car ride.

I START FREAKING OUT (assuming they were bed bugs)So my dad tells me to get out of my car and take off all of my clothes and ditch them, instead I found the nearest Appartement complex and dived head first into the pool with a 3 piece suit on 😂I'm currently drying up, & have concluded that they were fleas not bed bugs *Sigh of relief* This is the stuff the gurus don't tell you about, but I'm enjoying every minute of this ride😂 Questions: •I'm still deciding weather or not, I should wholesale this deal or buy it & rent it out.

I would only buy this If your paying cash.. get a STEAL  then can ride it out. 

As long as the price was right, the lease provided near-market rent and was not an absurd length (more than 6-12 months out,) I would just buy the property and ride out the lease.Other investors may (and probably will) disagree.

I have found that everyone on BP is willing to answer a question or give some advice in some form or fashion, and trust me every question I ask I feel is terrible or "dumb".

You are correct, and it would be the biggest reason for riding this out.At this point, the question boils down to, How much is my sanity worth?

I am torn between riding out the current market and buying.

@Michael LopezYou can choose to rollover the funds to an IRA of your choosing (self-directed or otherwise) and the full amount will be transferred without penalty.If you choose to take a distribution to yourself personally, there would be normal income taxation at the state and federal level, as well as a 10% penalty for early distribution if you are under age 59 1/2.With a self-directed IRA or similar plan such as a Solo 401k (if you qualify as self-employed in some fashion), you can diversify that savings into real estate investments.