Again, you must only disclose incidents about which you are aware.

Since this incident she has held rent hostage to cover her deductible. 

I have not read the police report myself, but another person will be charged with the incident - so it wasn't my tenant's fault - in fact he may not have even been in the unit due to family illness.  

After one incident of that she can ask a judge for a restraining order. 

I don't know personally what all in on record but it was shared that there is a counselor at work and colleagues at work that know the entire story and incidents.  

Took ice cube without filling back with water, used vacuum without emptying the dust bin after, taking chair from the living room and my steamed iron for her own use.After all these incidents, I have been thinking that she isn't considerate of other people.

I keep files for each property by address, with a subfolder for each individual unit, which in turn have subfolders named RTR, movein (if any discrepancy IS noted by tenant at walk through inspection), moveout, or specific incident (water leak) followed by six digit date they were taken IN THE FILENAME (separate from the file date generated by your system).

This incident is just more proof of that.

At 18 (~15 yrs ago) I became a convicted felon after a very unfortunate incident driven by the INCREDIBLY stupid decision to take drugs and a horrible reaction to their effects.

But this incident illustrates that your recommendation to rely on insurance alone was possibly/probably flawed.