@Wayne Brooks  that was my fear. 

Like the Majority of people, as Rich Dad puts it I have been living in fear.

I have seen that project and I am a little fearful that it is going to cause price competition and from there it is going to be a race to the bottom for who gives the best deal per night and that hurts every owner.

As I learned more, my fear is slowly subsiding.

But I fear you must be on active duty in order to extend.However, there's another reason entirely that would send me to a 1031 exchange. 

This should eliminate that fear."

I believe i have a bit of post traumatic stress and also what i call in my head house insecurity, I fear becoming homeless again.

Some markets that have distress and motivated sellers will benefit even more, but with higher rates, more fear, less buyers, if you have a mom and pop seller who is motivated, great time for the strategy.There are some great books on the subject.

We pivoted from houses (DUH) out of fear that the world was ending.

How do I instill confidence rather than fear of failure in a sense?