If anyone has a great realtor that knows the burbs and work well with investor please refer them to me.Thanks,Ryan

I know this is not "your" decision, but if your wife shares your interest in real estate, I would encourage her to consider her life choice like a real estate deal. 

@Simon W. wins the best advice award; If you have enough in your budget and enough supporting assets to hire an actual seasoned real estate controller, do itYour question is almost like your trying get your head around as if there is an owner with 2 choices: either hire employees or sub it out to a vendor.

If I do it wont be for long, and if I don't then I made the right choice anyway.

Not a big deal if you plan to pay it back in a short time frame (e.g. use the money for a BRRRR), but I don't think it's a good choice of long-term debt.I'd also be very careful about taking out money to "upgrade" your home.

As investors we look at quite a few metrics, and your choices depend on your lifestyle and your goals.

If he ends up being your final choice that's great, but if not, no harm no foul.

@Ryan Naylor I am planning on starting my investing by HELOC.

Search google for Choice Home Equity Line of Credit and the bank I am referring to will pop up. 

Your software of choice, if properly utilized, will facilitate the flow of communication between all of your stakeholders, and provide the opportunity to build streamlined services.