Many people don't like any kind of confrontation or disagreement, so they use an advisor (attorney, accountant,banker, etc.) as an excuse to not agree to a deal they are uncomfortable with.

Get your ducks in a row before you confront any inspector!

Asking for help shows a humbleness and position of interest - rather than a confrontational/direct approach.

Before I confronted him on it, I wanted to see if it was a normal fee.

absolutely...contractors will respect you and your business more when you stand up to them---not confrontational, just asserting yourself...thsi helps when you call them for repeat business..it's all about the relationships

I'm not sure what is going to happen from here but I'm hoping I have a chance to confront those kids and their parents in court.I'll also mention that these kids are extraordinarily lucky that I had left my house without my pistol.

I just had another confrontation with my landlord, leaving me shaking all over and wanting to break my lease.You see, I live in the same house as my landlord, who I found out, (unfortunately, after I signed the lease) is senile and emotionally unstable.

But I think our argument is pretty non-confrontational, we'll be able to get their words and definitions recorded to use against them as needed, and hopefully they'll realize that they don't have a leg to stand on.

I just thought that there is no reasone some of us on here could put that together and confront lenders with the option.

I confronted her about it and got the usual deer in the headlights (I'm a moron tenant) look!