I have been self employed for most of my adult life.

Stick to the basic luxuries, an HDTV with a Roku and a BluRay player with some adult movies. 

Further the adult children may with to move out on their own during the lease period.

Couldn't be simpler in Texas:To:  XxxxxxxThis is to serve as your 3 day notice to terminate the lease at 123 MainSigned Landlord DateNo reason needs to be givenOnly acceptable ways of delivery areIn person to an adult Tape to the inside of the door.

I also am involved with my church: a part of my focus is to develop leadership in the youth band as well as a young adult band.

They are in their 60s now and have adult kids , but just those two smallish buildings were able to create generational wealth.

Maybe having an adult conversation with the man will help you make your final decision. 

I knew way too many people to party their way to a 6 year bachelor's degree in something they don't use, living with parents and still basically adult children.

The partiers were not residents, it turned out one adult tenant had been marketing "pool parties" to non-residents at $5 a head.We have a "no parties" clause in our rental agreement, and also do not allow residents to run businesses on the property. 

That's when the upper unit tenant called me, as he's never really had this problem before and really didn't think he needed to call me because they are all adults but felt it was a big enough issue and now he is thinking about not resigning the lease for next year.