We filed the eviction, she took the paperwork to the charity, who then said they had no funds available.The tenant was obviously very upset and didn't want to leave, but we offered the cash because there was no way she could pay the rent going forward and neither of us wanted to go the eviction route.

Noob wholesaler question...Came across this property description in the FSBO on Zillow:**JUDICIAL SALE OFFERED BY MECKLENBURG COUNTY CLERK OF COURT, SUBJECT TO 10 DAY UPSET BID & CONFIRMATION BY CLERK OF COURT**CONTACT COMMISSIONER: (removed name / email) CONTACT TO SET UP SHOWING/MAKE OFFER**PROPERTY SOLD ?

It was more said in jest, than any feeling of actually being upset.

Also had to play therapist to the potential tenant who was upset about owners and is worried about the property now.Great.

Try to present just facts when communicating /negotiating and come to a conclusion where both parties have a victory (i.e. you get to keep the house and I get 50% of the equity).

I started buying OHI after Trump's victory actually.

That will clear everything up. Set

I understand he may influence your decision, but don't let that upset the apple cart.  

Lesson 4: If you are afraid of getting rejected so you aren't placing any low ball offers start counting rejected offers as victories.

Tell the seller that you intend to assign the contract if you can, and then if you cannot, they will not be surprised and have no reason to be upset with you.People who lie to sellers and "get out" of their contracts are bottom-feeding scumbags.