And I essentially have no hobbies aside from fishing and household projects, watch no TV, no sports, since I am already spending an average of 25-30 hours per week in real estate in addition to the 40 I spend in W-2 role.

I don't know if these numbers are 100% accurate but I heard the other day in Sonoma County CA that a household needs to make a combined 175K a year to afford living and a mortgage in our county and that only 4% of people meet that criteria.