For your part, it might seem like a free roll of the dice to go to court, but there are surprises and landmines along the way, litigation always takes far longer than anybody expects, and the time and emotional expense of fooling with litigation are energy drains on more productive endeavors.

I've had so much emotional and financial stress from this house after I moved out (mostly from a mean and very demanding tenant).

off-market deals can sometimes be the most emotional situation you will encounter. 

LTV & CreditEliminate the emotion and treat this like the business it is.In my opinion it does not matter who the borrower is as long as they have a track record of ATR (Credit)And I feel comfortable with the leverage (LTV)

It's interesting how the emails and texts get longer and more emotional while the spelling and grammar gets worse.I'll be filing a fraud claim with the Federal Trade Commission.

They also get all the emotional baggage that goes along with it.   

Follow her basic guidelines and don’t make any investment decisions on hunches or emotions.  

I get that you are from there so you are getting emotional and taking my comments personal, which were not my intentions. 

Focus on the numbers rather than emotions.

Much more emotion into the deals.