I found myself a few blocks from my courthouse (or more accurately, our public research room) a few days ago, and decided that since I'm trying to confront my fears, my inexperience, and do something (anything), I wandered on it and asked to look at the list of NODs.

I would confront him directly pointing out the "stories" and excuses.

Many are so upset over the past election that they want a confrontational environment inwhich to voice thier displeasure.Glen Beck saw the opportunity and is making millions of dollars giving people what they want, a way to justify thier displeasure without addressing the real issues.

This is unacceptable, and no Realtor should get away with this.When confronted all they said was, "sorry."

See if they are a note holder.Call the funeral director and ask who is taking care of the estate.....so far you are not talking with the family.Now, knowing there is an estate and a note, contact the trustee or exectutor(trix) to see if the estate will be liquidating assets or the note.I always try to stay away from family as that is the last thing they want to confront in that immediate term, but who ever is making funeral arrangements or did make them will probably be facing the business side of the estate.

I have cleaned out eviction units, filed court papers, been threatened by tenants, cleaned ductwork, replaced faucets and power outlets, ceiling fans , woken up at 1am dealing with drunk tenants on the phone etc etc etc.When I confronted him last night he made the statement that "one unit has had no trouble/I've had to spend no time there" which is true --but other units have consumed MORE time so it evens out--as long as I am paid.

While the I have been confronted a few times, I never needed a weapon.

Many people don't like any kind of confrontation or disagreement, so they use an advisor (attorney, accountant,banker, etc.) as an excuse to not agree to a deal they are uncomfortable with.

Get your ducks in a row before you confront any inspector!

Asking for help shows a humbleness and position of interest - rather than a confrontational/direct approach.