I also reached out to SBA to see if they'd send me the terms and conditions (strange they aren't readily available on the website).C

He'd rather buy a 1000 SF house for $300k than a 2000 SF house for $400k and rent out half for like $1500/mo (the majority of the mortgage payment).The whole mindset is really strange to me given that we're renting a condo apartment in a large complex and he was renting in an apartment complex 2 year prior to that.

So the concept is solid.But you're taking a familiar concept and putting it into a strange box - the normal single family home. 

I have no idea about repayment terms etc. it’s very strange and disorganized it seems

It seemed really strange when I found a couple listings where they added the HOA fee after the fact.

Also, I'm used to closings in Texas so the OK state contract seems a bit strange to me.

If your phone # is in the ad they would call if interested.I got a strange email from a Craigslist ad today also...I did respond with a link back to my ad - it contains any info someone needs to know.

>Also many cities that have ADUs prohibit you from renting out both units.that sounds strange.

Maybe matching up your long term financial goals, and then using real estate as the tool to achieve those goals, could be that shared passion that brings you two closer and strange instead of farther...

Steve Vaughan "i am donating my 3rd of their inheritance to local (to them) causes they have supported for over 30 yrs." that is one of the best ideas for giving back that I've heard in a long time.Jessie Nunley it's funny I was just thinking the other day about the negative pushback that I've had in the past, the strange thing is some of it has been from people who who own rental houses.