Feel free to shoot me a message and we can see if I have anything that might be a good fit.I’m looking to invest in multi family home in the Wilmington area.  

Thanks Andrew definitely a few things to consider except that I cant move in with any family members as my wife would kill me hahaha  Yeah, thus the "if you are single" qualifier.

Quote from @Virginia Frost: Investment Info:Small multi-family (2-4 units) buy & hold investment.

House hacking and multi-family properties are great ways to start in real estate!

I have another property from a family friend that is being sold  for 150k, and the estimated value is 340k. 21 acre road front property w 3/2 bath.

Investment Info:Single-family residence fix & flip investment in Goodland.

This would amount to about 4-5% of US residents and of a demographic which disproportionately rents multi-family and also SFRs not owns.

Investment Info:Single-family residence buy & hold investment.

Is this a single-family home or a multi-unit? 

I have also run the scenario of putting extra principle payments into the conventional mortgage, but we cannot put away as much, because we have to bank for large purchases down the road.This spreadsheet takes into account that my wife takes a drop in income in the next few years to care for babies (growing family), also factors in major expenses on the rental property, and assumes that we have 10% rate on the HELOC to be conservative.