They agreed and poof it went away.There's no harm in asking.

how do you handel the fact that a bad person can ask to see a home and then esp if a lady is showing it what if they try to harm her once they are inside the home alone?

If what you have is shot, doing harm to the structure or maybe it's at the point where it is just ugly, then the cost/value added is justified.

Being new, I need all the info I can get on the subject, but its a daunting task trying to weed through truth, and whatever else is said in a post, on a forum.I mean no harm/offense/negative to anyone here, but shouldnt posts in a forum be treated as if we were speaking in everyday life?

of course that's up to the seller to require it.u could do deals where you put no money down, place a contingency in it that lets you off the hook if you are unable to find a buyer - no foul no harm, if the seller is okay with a 30day option.you might market it as being a better value for them because you'll focus all your efforts on their house whereas a realtor who's going to make money from them (rather than you making it from the buyer) and the realtor is focused on a 100 properties - not particularly yours.

Also, it was pretty motivational -nothing wrong with that for new investors (as long as there's some substance).

and Im "FAIRLY" sure that she would not do anything to harm my wealth , there is possibilies correct?

Any harm in that?

The law has a doctrine called “substance over form.”

Not to sound harsh, but that board doesn't feel like it's got as much substance.