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12 September 2015 | 23 replies
There's no shame in defeat...only in giving up.
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22 April 2015 | 24 replies
The down payment, to my understanding, kind of defeats the whole purpose of using hard money to begin with.
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13 May 2015 | 13 replies
So I would then have to manipulate things on a spreadsheet to then keep mint accurate which defeats the purpose and I stopped using mint and just went back to excel.
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19 May 2015 | 2 replies
How much does using absentee lists defeat the purpose of 'driving for dollars'?
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19 May 2015 | 3 replies
Today I'm a little defeated by yet another person that hasn't paid there payment in 4 yrs and last night they say Foreclosure may be what they DESERVE.Last night was just another night in my investment carrier.
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17 February 2016 | 2 replies
Long story short, not for me as it will defeat my purpose.
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13 January 2016 | 16 replies
What I caught recently was being positive toward the negative, usually self defeating, thoughts that creep in by appreciating them as warnings then recognizing I have dealt with, or can deal with, the issue successfully.
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2 January 2016 | 22 replies
I do not offer the contract "for sale", nor do I complete a double closing - that would defeat the "do not sale within xxx days/months/years" clause of the REO addendum.
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26 January 2016 | 15 replies
I know this is a terrible idea 1- for liability purposes 2- it kind of defeats the purpose of getting out bc while it frees up cash, it prevents me from being able to take out additional loans in my name - but maybe there is an option that I havent thought of?
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9 November 2015 | 3 replies
The only way to roll the rehab costs into the purchase price is for the seller to pay for the rehab, which defeats your purpose.